The Kind Of Relationship I Want

My expectations in a relationship have changed over time. Now I no longer want someone who only promises me that he will always love me and never gonna leave me, someone who sugars coat things and never gets angry with me. I need someone who understands me, who tells me how it really is and put me in the right place, who tells me this is life and this thing happens. Sometimes things don't work out as we want it to be. The one without whom I am not incomplete, but with him, I am much better. I want to be stronger with him. I want to grow with him by helping each other grow individually. I don't need him, but I really want him.

Relationships aren't easier, no matter how easy it is to fall in love with someone. We all are different as an individual and we all have our psychological needs differ from person to person. When a relationship starts, often, it is all about the stars, romantic dates, and sweet talks. Sometimes, I do see people-pleasing their partners by becoming who they aren't. Like being someone just to make them happy. We need to understand that the rawness of one's soul makes the relationship more beautiful. When the person falls in love with the real you, it definitely feels awesome. When the fairytale phase gets over, we get to know the ugly phase of a relationship. Couples do fight, yell at each other and they see the messier side of each other.

Fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you, who understands you even in the madness; someone who helps you, and guides you. Someone who talks with you after a fight. Find someone who will do anything to keep you, not one that only wants you when it's convenient for them.

The one who isn't made for simple hello's, small talk, formal smiles, flirting, and infatuated moments. The one who made for adventures, road trips, and late-night ice-cream, for full smiles and laughter that feels complete. Who is made for beach walks and conversations that last until the early hours of sunrise. Who soothes your heart and music that fuels your soul, and the one who made to do the one thing that you fear to do the most.

The best relationship is that in which you are not only there for someone in the hardest time it means you are there for someone each and every time. A relationship doesn't mean just only passing time with asking "had dinner" or asking every hour "what are you doing". The best relationship is that in which you'll enjoy each and every second of your life with each other without any pressure. 

The real connection is when you're connected with someone with an invisible thread which no one sees and no one cut this thread. The true connection is when you know about your partner more than by any social site wall.

Being in a relationship means working together as a team. To pick when other falls or to find comfort when you feel low. Just be whoever you are and love your partner for who he or she is really rather than imposing false expectations of who you want them to be. Only then, you would learn to live happily as an individual and as well as partners.

Don't ever cover the mistake of each other just because you're in love maybe it's better for the present but it didn't give any benefit in the future. Always try to give the right direction to your partner or always talk about those problems which you don't like about them and never be a part of their mistake.

Sometimes we need someone who will be there for us in our good or tough times. We all want a genuine relationship in our life but this will we get only if we have a healthy relationship with ourselves first. Cover your relation with a positive vibe. Fix the problem, start the romance again. Go on dates again. Work on winning each other over again. 

Just remember no one is perfect in this world but our imagination beyond perfection so don't assume before you get into any relationship. Because this is not about you only. There is one other life also suffer just because your needs are very high. It's better to find someone with whom you think you're complete rather finding a person who just there to complete your need.