What is Self-Love? Many people mistakenly believe that self-love is the s ame as selfishness, or having a b ig ego. It’s not. So, what do we mean when we say “self-love”? Self-love means having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness. Self-love is not simply a state of feeling good. Self-love means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others. Self-love means not settling for less than you deserve. Loving yourself doesn’t mean you think you’re the smartest, most talented, and most beautiful person in the world. Instead, when you love yourself you accept your so-called weaknesses, appreciate these so-called shortcomings as something that makes you who you are. When you love yourself you have compassion for yourself. You take care of yourself like you’d take care of a friend who is in stress. You treat yourself kindly. You don’t criticize yourself. Self-love is a practice and it’s a skill that takes work. Sel...
We all make mistakes in our lives, whether it is in a relationship, work-life, school, or other endeavors. In this blog, I'm talking about mistakes that we do in our lives, in relationships. As a human, it's common that we are going to make mistakes, in order to learn or achieve something new.
In the process of learning something new or just because we don't know the perception of another person, we hurt them. It is called a mistake because our intension was not to hurt them.
We make a mistake in dealing with our parents by shouting at them and then regretted and felt really bad. We judge our friend wrongly and then realize actually it was our mistake not his/her. We make some mistakes in the past, everyone does, everyone has there own dark past. We do mistakes, we learned from that. But the most important part is to forgive yourself for your mistake. Accept the mistake. learn from it and move on. Don't just stick to it with guilt that I did something bad.
If you do something bad to a person. Just for once go to that person and genuinely say sorry and apologize to him/her. Then leave that up to them whether they forgive you or not but after saying that just make sure you forgive yourself.
We make a mistake and feel guilty. We hurt someone and feel guilty. We lie or deceive and feel guilty. We don't do what someone wants us to do and feel guilty. Even after we apologize, we often still feel guilty. Guilt is our psyche's way of letting us know when we've acted against our integrity. If someone tries to make you feel guilty, state your truth with confidence. Then consciously work to disengage from guilt. Once a situation is properly addressed, guilt does absolutely nothing for you except cause pain.
In life the most important thing is realization. Realizing that yes I made a mistake, I hurt somebody, not intentionally, but yes because of my action or words someone gets hurt. And I feel bad about it. But that doesn't mean sticking to that mistake for the whole life. Accept the mistake, do whatever you can do to correct it, or anything you can do to improve/ making the situation better. If you can't do anything, accept the mistake, learn a lesson from it and move on.
Recognizing your own mistakes makes it easier to understand others’ mistakes when they happen — especially if they have directly affected you. Mistakes teach us to be forgiving. You probably know from your own life experiences that mistakes are painful but very useful ways of learning about yourself. Mistakes help you grow as a person. Making mistakes teach us valuable lessons.
Everyone makes mistakes, and everyone has to deal with them. It’s how you recover that comes to define you. Remember that you are not your mistake. When you make a mistake, keep in mind that it doesn’t define who you are as a person. Try not to jump to conclusions about your worth or value. No one’s perfect, and that’s okay.
" To make a mistake is a part of our nature.
Acceptance of mistakes shows our culture.
Correcting mistakes decides our stature."
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