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Self - Love : Come Fall In Love With Yourself

What is Self-Love? Many people mistakenly believe that self-love is the s ame as selfishness,  or having a b ig ego. It’s not.   So, what do we mean when we say “self-love”? Self-love means having a high regard for your own well-being and happiness.  Self-love is not simply a state of feeling good.  Self-love means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others. Self-love means not settling for less than you deserve.  Loving yourself doesn’t mean you think you’re the smartest, most talented, and most beautiful person in the world. Instead, when you love yourself you accept your so-called weaknesses, appreciate these so-called shortcomings as something that makes you who you are. When you love yourself you have compassion for yourself. You take care of yourself like you’d take care of a friend who is in stress. You treat yourself kindly. You don’t criticize yourself. Self-love is a practice and it’s a skill that takes work. Self-love is something that
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Connect Yourself With Nature

Feel The Nature   Sit under a tree without anything to do, feel the winds, the fragrance of flowers, the light of the sun hit your skin. Realize everything happens for you only, only to make you feel good. Sit in the sun without anything to do, feel the heat of the rays hit your skin, realize that this sunlight has traveled a very long way to reach you. Walk around barefoot and try to feel as much as you can, the ground under your feet, notice every rock and blade of grass. Drive around aimlessly and play your favorite song, enjoy the drive. As they change the air in your throat and around you, feel that the music is healing you from inside out. Now you are going to understand the meaning of the song's lyrics. Look up at the stars and the moon, understand how small we are and how immense the universe is, realize what a miracle everything is, let your heart swell with amazement and admiration for life itself. Walk with your eyes and ears open. Hear and listen the nature, the music h
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Forgive Yourself And Move On

  All of us make mistakes at times. We all make mistakes. Oftentimes, through our actions, somebody gets hurt. As humans, we’re imperfect. It’s helpful to remember that mistakes, failures, and even incredibly stupid acts are part of being human. It’s how we learn and grow. If you’re never embarrassed or wrong and if you never make a mistake, you’re probably staying within a pretty narrow comfort zone. The trick is to learn and move on from our mistakes. As painful and uncomfortable as it may feel, there are things in life that are worth enduring the pain for in order to move forward, and forgiving yourself is one of them. We hear a lot about the importance of forgiving those who have harmed us, but what about forgiving ourselves? Is that important as well? I believe that it is. Many of us know that forgiveness is a good thing, right? It frees us from bitterness and anger, these two emotions that not only don’t feel good but can also disrupt our physical health and mental health as well
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Mistakes

  We all make mistakes in our lives, whether it is in a relationship, work-life, school, or other endeavors. In this blog, I'm talking about mistakes that we do in our lives, in relationships. As a human, it's common that we are going to make mistakes, in order to learn or achieve something new.  In the process of learning something new or just because we don't know the perception of another person, we hurt them. It is called a mistake because our intension was not to hurt them.  We make a mistake in dealing with our parents by shouting at them and then regretted and felt really bad. We judge our friend wrongly and then realize actually it was our mistake not his/her. We make some mistakes in the past, everyone does, everyone has there own dark past. We do mistakes, we learned from that. But the most important part is to forgive yourself for your mistake. Accept the mistake. learn from it and move on. Don't just stick to it with guilt that I did something bad. If you do
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Feminism is Not a Dirty Word

What is Feminism  A lot of you have all kinds of questions, confusion, misinterpretations of what feminism is all about. Is feminism anti-men? is feminism against the institution of marriage? is feminism about angry women shouting slogans? or is an alien concept and doesn't have any relevance in our country. If you look up the definition of “Feminism” in the dictionary, you’ll see these statements: Feminism is: 1. The advocacy of women’s rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes 2. The theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes 3. The belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities 4. The doctrine advocating social, political, and all other rights of women equal to those of men There's a big difference between the perception of what feminism is and the truth of what it means. Feminism means everyone is treated fairly and with respect. Feminism is not anti-anything, it's pro-equality. Feminism means believing that women an
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5 Life Lessons That COVID-19 Pandemic Taught Me

In the past three months, we all have seen life has changed drastically around the world, taken 360-degree turn due to the Covid-19 pandemic. Everything has changed. Nothing is the same anymore, our work culture, going out in public places, meeting friends, function celebration, festival celebration, etc. We all are feeling hectic because of this pandemic, the restrictions which it put on us. People everywhere are being asked to stay home in order to reduce the risk of infection. The virus has brought with it a wave of negative outcomes, terrible illness, and death.  In my opinion, a virus that has continuously been cursed all over the globe has actually done a favor to humankind. It has reminded us to live our life. It also highlighted some important life lessons. We cannot deny the fact that even without our knowledge, we were living an automated life. We all became too dependent on machine living.  We could finish every work within no time, but we forgot to appreciate the little thi
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The Kind Of Relationship I Want

My expectations in a relationship have changed over time. Now I no longer want someone who only promises me that he will always love me and never gonna leave me, someone who sugars coat things and never gets angry with me. I need someone who understands me, who tells me how it really is and put me in the right place, who tells me this is life and this thing happens. Sometimes things don't work out as we want it to be. The one without whom I am not incomplete, but with him, I am much better. I want to be stronger with him. I want to grow with him by helping each other grow individually. I don't need him, but I really want him. Relationships aren't easier, no matter how easy it is to fall in love with someone. We all are different as an individual and we all have our psychological needs differ from person to person. When a relationship starts, often, it is all about the stars, romantic dates, and sweet talks. Sometimes, I do see people-pleasing their partners by becoming who
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Connect Yourself With Nature

Feel The Nature   Sit under a tree without anything to do, feel the winds, the fragrance of flowers, the light of the sun hit your skin. Realize everything happens for you only, only to make you feel good. Sit in the sun without anything to do, feel the heat of the rays hit your skin, realize that this sunlight has traveled a very long way to reach you. Walk around barefoot and try to feel as much as you can, the ground under your feet, notice every rock and blade of grass. Drive around aimlessly and play your favorite song, enjoy the drive. As they change the air in your throat and around you, feel that the music is healing you from inside out. Now you are going to understand the meaning of the song's lyrics. Look up at the stars and the moon, understand how small we are and how immense the universe is, realize what a miracle everything is, let your heart swell with amazement and admiration for life itself. Walk with your eyes and ears open. Hear and listen the nature, the music h
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Forgive Yourself And Move On

  All of us make mistakes at times. We all make mistakes. Oftentimes, through our actions, somebody gets hurt. As humans, we’re imperfect. It’s helpful to remember that mistakes, failures, and even incredibly stupid acts are part of being human. It’s how we learn and grow. If you’re never embarrassed or wrong and if you never make a mistake, you’re probably staying within a pretty narrow comfort zone. The trick is to learn and move on from our mistakes. As painful and uncomfortable as it may feel, there are things in life that are worth enduring the pain for in order to move forward, and forgiving yourself is one of them. We hear a lot about the importance of forgiving those who have harmed us, but what about forgiving ourselves? Is that important as well? I believe that it is. Many of us know that forgiveness is a good thing, right? It frees us from bitterness and anger, these two emotions that not only don’t feel good but can also disrupt our physical health and mental health as well
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The Beauty Of Life : Uncertainty

Uncertainty is basically not knowing what to do next and being unable to predict what's going to happen in the near future for sure. I always used to hate uncertainty. Probably because I hate to take risks. The unknown outcome scares me a lot because you can't predict the possibility of a future outcome. The world is an uncertain place, things change fast and it can be difficult to see what's coming next. Uncertainty is very stressful, it is even worse than predictable negative consequences, than knowing something bad is definitely going to happen.   It brings a lot of questions in your mind like Will I get that job? Will I get success in this field? Will I get the promotion? Will I win the award? Will I be accepted into graduate school? What are the results of my report? Shall I do this or not? and so on.  I always used to pray god that somehow I'll get the power of knowing my future. So that there will be no risk in doing new things. If the outcome will be bad I'm
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